Firewall (Dec 29, 2011)

Controlling your fantasies. Read more.

Word of the Day (Dec 21 2011)

Sometimes it's hard to be sure. Read more.

Self-appraisal (Dec 14, 2011

Readers express doubt about themselves and their partners. Read on.

Too Hot (Dec 7, 2011)

The risk of creating destruction. Read all about it.

GGG Defined (Nov 30, 2011)

Searching for a definitive listing of "good, giving, game." Read more.

Looking for Approval (Nov 23, 2011)

Letters about people looking for approval of what they feel/believe. Read more.

Complaint Dept (Nov 9, 2011)

Complaints. Analysis. Read more.

Let Go (Nov 2, 2011)

Sometimes moving on means letting go of your conception of how things are supposed to be. Read more here.

College Try (Oct 26, 2011)

Life changes, lost distance romances, new places and people. What to make of it? Read.

The Grass is Greener (Oct 19, 2011)

Or two in the bush... . Read.

Warped (Oct 12, 2011)

Hiding your identity will warp your psyche. Read.

Satyr, not Faun (Sep 7, 2011)

And definitely not fawn. Don't play innocent. Own your identity. Read here.

Bitch Puddin’ (Sep 14, 2011)

Tell it like it is. Read.

Hot or Not? (Aug 3, 2011)

Get on the good foot and do your thing. Read.

Vacation Memories (Aug 3, 2011)

Readers share their vacation stories. Read the letters here.

Dirty Secrets (July 27, 2011)

You've got 'em. Now read about someone else's.

Never Enough (July 20, 2011)

There are myriad forms of abuse and manipulation in relationships. Read the letter.

Daddie Issues (July 13, 2011)

Young man worries over finding pictures of his father hidden in his brother's night stand. Read the column.

NY State Approves Marriage Rights (July 7, 2011)

Riffing here on the NY State flag, as NY governor Cuomo signs bill to legalize gay marriage. Read the column.

ove-Rx-posed (June 22, 2011)

24 yr. old actor/singer/comedian considers possible porn appearance, and ponders possible impact on future medical career. Read the column here.

Guidance (June 8, 2011)

Transman gets by with a little help from his friends. Read the column.

Deceptinator (June 1, 2011)

The art of deception, as embodied in Arnie. Read the column.

I Paint What I See (May 25, 2011)

Self-deception is a powerful thing. Read the column.

Size Matters (May 18, 2011)

Make the most of what you've got. Read the letter.

The Perfect Husband (Apr 13, 2011)

Some obsess with preserving monogamy in marriage over the marriage itself. Read the letter here.

Taking Measure (Apr 6, 2011)

Take your chances with care. Read how.

Bad Fit (Mar 23, 2011)

You can’t force a good fit. Read all about it.

Low Voltage (Feb 2, 2011)

One size does not fit all. Read the letter.