Dirty Turtle (Jan 25, 2012)

Do us both a favor and clean yourself up a bit. Read more.

Frothy Fans (Jan 11, 2012)

Santorum surges in Iowa. Read more.

Secret Swinging (Jan 4, 2012)

Keeping open relationships secret from the outside world. Read more.

Firewall (Dec 29, 2011)

Controlling your fantasies. Read more.

Word of the Day (Dec 21 2011)

Sometimes it's hard to be sure. Read more.

Self-appraisal (Dec 14, 2011

Readers express doubt about themselves and their partners. Read on.

Too Hot (Dec 7, 2011)

The risk of creating destruction. Read all about it.

GGG Defined (Nov 30, 2011)

Searching for a definitive listing of "good, giving, game." Read more.

Looking for Approval (Nov 23, 2011)

Letters about people looking for approval of what they feel/believe. Read more.

Complaint Dept (Nov 9, 2011)

People complain. Dan analyzes. Read more.

Let Go (Nov 2, 2011)

Sometimes moving on means letting go of your conception of how things are supposed to be. Read more here.

College Try (Oct 26, 2011)

Life changes, lost distance romances, new places and people. What to make of it? Read.

The Grass is Greener (Oct 19, 2011)

Or two in the bush... . Read.

Warped (Oct 12, 2011)

Hiding your identity will warp your psyche. Read.

Satyr, not Faun (Sep 7, 2011)

And definitely not fawn. Don't play innocent. Own your identity. Read here.

Bitch Puddin’ (Sep 14, 2011)

Tell it like it is. Read.

Hot or Not? (Aug 3, 2011)

Get on the good foot and do your thing. Read.

Vacation Memories (Aug 3, 2011)

Readers share their vacation stories. Read the letters here.

Dirty Secrets (July 27, 2011)

You've got 'em. Now read about someone else's.

Never Enough (July 20, 2011)

There are myriad forms of abuse and manipulation in relationships. Read the letter.

Daddie Issues (July 13, 2011)

Young man worries over finding pictures of his father hidden in his brother's night stand. Read the column.

NY State Approves Marriage Rights (July 7, 2011)

Riffing here on the NY State flag, as NY governor Cuomo signs bill to legalize gay marriage. Read the column.

ove-Rx-posed (June 22, 2011)

24 yr. old actor/singer/comedian considers possible porn appearance, and ponders possible impact on future medical career. Read the column here.

Guidance (June 8, 2011)

Transman gets by with a little help from his friends. Read the column.

Deceptinator (June 1, 2011)

The art of deception, as embodied in Arnie. Read the column.

I Paint What I See (May 25, 2011)

Self-deception is a powerful thing. Read the column.

Size Matters (May 18, 2011)

Make the most of what you've got. Read the letter.

The Perfect Husband (Apr 13, 2011)

Some obsess with preserving monogamy in marriage over the marriage itself. Read the letter here.

Taking Measure (Apr 6, 2011)

Take your chances with care. Read how.

Bad Fit (Mar 23, 2011)

You can’t force a good fit. Read all about it.

Low Voltage (Feb 2, 2011)

One size does not fit all. Read the letter.

Blowin’ Up Big! (Dec 1, 2010)

Man, the tool user. Sometimes a little encouragement is all that is needed. Read the column.

Odd Ducks (Nov 17, 2011)

Be what you want to be. Read the column.

In your face (Oct 27, 2010)

Not to be confused with a rim shot. Read the letter here.

Better Still (Sep 29, 2010)

The second in a series about “It gets better”, a youtube channel to help young gays who are being bullied. Read the column.

Third Bird (Aug 4, 2010)

What to do when both you and your partner have a wondering eye? Wander together. Read the column here.

Eat it too (July 28, 2010)

This one’s for the ladies. Read the column.

The more things change… (July 7, 2010)

Back to basics. Our most primal instincts never leave us. Read the column.

Up for anything (June 30, 2010)

Open communication is the key to getting as good as you give. Read the column.